Being a leader isn’t just for extroverts.
Or at least that’s what the chaplain (head of membership development)
of a Dalhousie University fraternity is trying to teach in a new
leadership program.
“I believe that everyone is a leader in their own right, in their own
way,” says Sam Travaglini, a fourth-year history student and member of
the Phi Delta Theta fraternity.
“You don’t have to be the outgoing, frosh leader of the year type to be a leader.”
Travaglini launched a pilot for his Developing Leadership Program
this week. For one hour every week for two months, he will help 10
volunteers from his fraternity to thrive on their strengths and identify
their weaknesses as leaders.
For example, one section of the program involves basic presentation
skills, since “every leader needs to know how to present and how to
command a room, and get people’s attention and keep it for however long
they’re presenting.”
Nathan Brenan, the president of the fraternity and an advisor on the
program, says he realized Phi Delta Theta had the potential to give him
the experiences he needed for success after university.
Being a member for four years now, he hopes the program will teach new members the same.
“Many people are willing to learn, they just do not know how,” Brenan says.
“Sam has created a program that we can now give to the guys and say
this is one thing you are receiving from the fraternity and if you are
willing to step up to the challenge you can become a better leader from
it.”
The program uses a variety of exercises to create confidence and
banish self-doubt. One exercise is called Positivity Pointers, in which a
few participants sit in a circle and pass around pieces of paper on
which they write compliments about one another.
“By the time you get your sheet back, you have five things that are
positive about you,” Travaglini says. “One thing that the Positivity
Pointers do is allow that person to see the good things about them.”
In running each session as a discussion rather than a lecture, Travaglini hopes to build up confidence in his volunteers.
The ability to talk in front of a group is integral to the Soapbox
exercise as well, where each member takes 30 seconds to stand up and
talk about any topic. This activity eventually translates into the
speech skills necessary for a strong presentation.
Travaglini has been able to identify particular characteristics that
make someone a strong leader, says Graham Erskine, a member of Phi Delta
Theta and an advisor in the creation of the piloted program.
“University is when we learn and develop skills, both personal and
professional, that we will use for the rest of our lives, and this is
exactly what Sam’s program aims to do,” Erskine says.
The recognition of one’s own skills and strengths is what the program
aims to do, and is what’s currently lacking in many young students,
says Phil Cantrill, the Alpha North Province President of the
fraternity. He also works in the career transition industry and helps
people realize their potential when finding a new job.
“I see the consistent disconnect from the skills and teachings to an
individual’s ability to execute these skills,” says Cantrill.
If the pilot is successful among the members of Phi Delta Theta,
Travaglini could go on to be a facilitator at the East Coast Leadership
Conference in Halifax in February.
He also hopes to eventually expand his program into the community to
help adults, and high school and university students to realize their
leadership potential.
“It’s to become a lifelong leader,” Travaglini says.
“You don’t have to be the president or the CEO to be a leader, you
just have to respect the people around you, you have to be confident,
and you have to be sure of what you say.”